No, you are not losing your grip: You are experiencing a very common spike in anxiety due to hormonal fluctuations. Sometimes the shift in hormones can cause you to experience premenstrual syndrome (PMS) or even premenstrual dysphoric disorder (PMDD). According to American Family Physician, “around 85 percent of menstruating women report having one or more premenstrual symptoms, and 2 to 10 percent report disabling, incapacitating symptoms.” RELATED: 10 Home Remedies to Relieve Menstrual Cramps “Right before your period starts, estradiol and progesterone are declining rapidly," Dr. Nillni explains. “Researchers have speculated that rapid hormonal withdrawal might underlie those symptoms. However, reactions to these normal hormone changes are unique; some women experience mood changes across their menstrual cycles, while some experience minimal changes in their mood related to their menstrual cycle.” RELATED: Period Proud: Real Women Tout Their Go-To Period Products Is Feeling Anxious During Your Cycle Normal? For some women, anxiety is par for the course, says Nillni. “A large portion of women will feel some sort of mood or affect change before their period. It’s not necessarily anxiety — it could also be feeling more irritable, sad, or having mood swings.” Or you could feel no different at all. Only a small minority of women, about 3 to 8 percent, will experience mood changes around the menstrual cycle that cause significant disruption in their daily lives. RELATED: Women, Hormones, and Depression

Is Anxiety Part of PMS and PMDD?

“Some women with anxiety problems may experience a premenstrual exacerbation of their anxiety symptoms. Also, some of the factors that predict anxiety-related problems also predict PMS, suggesting a potential link between these two problems,” says Nillni. She adds that for a diagnosis of PMDD, you need to have one or more of the following mood symptoms: mood swings, depressed mood, anxiety, or irritability, along with other physical symptoms such as fatigue, appetite, and sleep changes. Additionally, these symptoms must occur during most menstrual cycles and cause significant distress or impairment. RELATED: First Ever Guidelines Address Depression in Midlife Women

Getting Help for Your Anxiety During Your Menstrual Cycle

Are you experiencing PMS or PMDD? Nillni says you should ask yourself how distressing or impairing the symptoms are: Is it interfering with your ability to work or go to school, engage in your hobbies, interact with your family and friends, or socialize? Those are signs that something unusual is going on and you should seek help.

Home Remedies to Alleviate Feeling Anxious With Your Period

Laurie Steelsmith, ND, a naturopathic doctor, acupuncturist, and author of Natural Choices for Women’s Health recommends the following self-care strategies.

Exercise You don’t have to go to the gym. Dance at home, go for a walk or run. Move in all directions, not just up and down. “You increase your oxygen intake and circulation through movement, which increases blood flow to your liver. This helps your liver break down your hormones,” says Dr. Steelsmith.Restorative yoga This practice puts you into a parasympathetic (calm) state. “It takes you right out of that fight-or-flight anxious feeling,” she says.Avoid caffeine This stimulant can cause your heart to race, which mimics a panic attack.Magnesium The crucial mineral can balance the neurotransmitters glutamate and GABA (gamma aminobutyric acid). The first is a stimulating neurotransmitter or brain chemical; the second is a calming one. Consult your doctor before you add this or any supplement to your regular diet.Vitamin B6 According to the National Institutes of Health, there is some preliminary data showing that this B vitamin can help with PMS symptoms.L-theanine Found in green tea, this amino acid has been shown to relax the mind without making you sleepy, according to research published in the Asian Pacific Journal of Clinical Nutrition.

Medications and Therapies That Can Help With Menstrual-Associated Anxiety

If self-care doesn’t work, talk with your physician about prescription medications, says Thalia Robakis, MD, PhD, the codirector of the Women’s Mental Health Program at Icahn School of Medicine at Mount Sinai in New York City.

Anti-anxiety and anti-depression medications such as selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs), buspirone, propanolol, and benzodiazepine.Hormonal birth control, such as the pill, ring, or patch, can be useful to women whose irritability is specifically premenstrual. Women whose anxiety or irritability is not related to their menstrual cycle may find that hormonal birth control affects their mood adversely.Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) This form of psychotherapy helps you to replace negative thoughts with positive ones.